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She talks about how nervous she was her "first time," how hard it was for her to walk in the door at a similar party she attended over a decade ago in Los Angeles. It's really about family. Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley about finding friends you can show your true self to, friends for life, who can be there for you in a way your real family can't.

I'm here this evening with my partner, Jason, to see what this thing called "swinging" is all about.

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Most of the men have short haircuts and are sporting appropriate holiday gear: The women are also dressed up, some very clean-cut, others looking sassy in a Peronals of Victoria's Secret way.

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Although I keep looking for any signs of sexual activity, this really is just a dance. As the evening wears on, a few groups of women start dirty dancing with each other, and one briefly removes her shirt. That's about as wild as it gets.

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Because the suburban world preferred by most people in the lifestyle is not my world, and because my idea of a sex party is far more explicit than mere flirtatious dancing, I spend most of the evening hunting for sexual tension in the room, trying to puzzle out what makes the lifestyle seductive for so many apparently strait-laced people.

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A Look at the Sexual Rites of Swingers, locates the origins of spouse sharing. According to Gould, swinging was nurtured in the high-intensity culture of World War II fighter Silickn and their spouses. Sexologists Joan and Dwight Dixon, who have been in the lifestyle since the s, corroborate his claim.

They explain that fighter pilots, unlike other enlisted men, tended not to go out drinking off-base. They remained at home, seeking excitement and release with their wives on the military bases.

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Sainger Eventually, swinging moved beyond the military community in the s and '60s, but it never strayed far from the postwar suburban communities created by returning GIs and their families. Gould recounts how one swinging vet named Leidy became a traveling salesman in the suburbs.

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As he went from town to town, he compiled the Leidy List, a pamphlet full of names and contact information for known swingers. He shared the list with others in the lifestyle, and thus became the informal publisher of the first swingers' magazine.

The swinger's Bible is the North American Swing Club Association's annual directory which includes events, shopping and travel destinations. The swingers' magazine still exists today, and it continues to Swingerr the amateurish feel of a Leidy List.

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According to this book, San Francisco was "the swingingest city in the nation per capita. These other subcultures, which were all distinctly urban and radical, could be grouped into three rough, overlapping categories: It's important to view the Women looking to fuck in columbus today against the backdrop of its complicated relationships with other kinds of sexual liberation.

While the gay rights movement and queer politics redefined who you might love and desire, swinging did not. Most people in the lifestyle are in traditional, heterosexual marriages and wish Perrsonals stay that way.

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Although recent VValley have seen a high tolerance for female bisexuality among swingers, male bisexuality is largely unheard of. At The Forum, Silicon Valley's most popular swing club, male bisexuality is strictly forbidden. Other local clubs don't have any formal policies about male bisexuality, Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley people in the lifestyle note that it's not really considered acceptable for men to engage in bisexual play.

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Russell Baker, a sex educator with Seattle's Society for Human Sexuality and an occasional participant in the lifestyle, elaborates on the changing role of same-sex play among swingers: I sincerely believe that the swinging community's male-male sex taboo will go the way of their female-female sex taboo within the next five years or so.

The point of swinging is not to challenge gender roles, nor to question heterosexuality. People in the lifestyle Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley being married or partnered, Silicoon simply want to supplement their Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley life by including intimacies with other couples like themselves.

And unlike hippie "free love" advocates Wife looking nsa PA Orbisonia 17243 the s, people in the lifestyle are often politically conservative--their sexual proclivities are not supposed to "change the world" or "question authority.

This isn't to say that swingers are a clandestine, sneaky lot; they may be very open among other people in the lifestyle. But they prefer not to make their sexuality a public statement. Furthermore, swingers differentiated themselves from free lovers of the '60s by advocating marriage and family life rather than multiple partners and communal living. The true inheritors of the free-love movement today are Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley polyamorists and pansexuals, people who believe one person can have many romantic and sexual partners at the same time.

Finally, the swingers' community must be distinguished from another sex-oriented community that emerged in the early s: Celebrated in Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley fetish magazines like Exotique, and modeled by the now-famous cult pinup Betty Page, the early bdsm community was composed mostly of urbanites who relished fetish clothing corsets, leather thigh-high Chihuahua horny teen fucking, etc.

By the s, bdsm had spread to the "leatherman" subculture in gay male circles, where anonymous public sex was supplemented with restraints, discipline games, fisting and sexual role-playing. View to a Thrill: Published locally on newsprint stock, the Swingers Digest contains sexually explicit photos and ads which play more to stereotypes of the lifestyle, according to the story's author, than the reality of Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley.

As sex historian Gayle Rubin put it: In addition, Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley became the major symbolic and social location People in the lifestyle meet together because they all share a taste for sexuality which doesn't fit neatly into "the norm. Group solidarity is precisely what drew Tony and Joleen into the lifestyle.

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A Bay Area couple Swinger Personals in Silicon Valley own their own business, Tony and Joleen could be poster kids for today's swing community: Persojals school sweethearts Personlas married inthey were each other's first lovers. A lack of erotic experiences with other people aroused their curiosity about swinging.

Tony explains, "We got married and got pregnant while our friends were carousing, and we never got to do that. So we had some natural curiosity. There, they sought what Tony describes as "open-minded people comfortable with expressing their sexuality. Laughing, Tony recalls, "We were 28 or 29 and the average age of people there was over It was almost a senior citizens' convention, and very intimidating.

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The following year, they attended again. With the kind of lighthearted candor you find everywhere in the lifestyle, Tony Silicob, "We noticed that they're pretty attractive too, although we've never done anything with them. Have their unconventional choices affected them adversely?

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